Wednesday, April 25, 2012

not JUST statistics


*Number of children in the world
   
2.2 billion

*Number in poverty
   
1 billion (every second child)

*For the 1.9 billion children from the developing world, there are:

640 million without adequate shelter (1 in 3)
       
400 million with no access to safe water (1 in 5)

270 million with no access to health services (1 in 7)

*Children out of education worldwide
   
121 million

*Survival for children worldwide:

10.6 million died in 2003 before they reached the age of 5 (same as children population in France, Germany, Greece and Italy)
       
1.4 million die each year from lack of access to safe drinking water and adequate sanitation

*Health of children worldwide

2.2 million children die each year because they are not immunized
       
15 million children orphaned due to HIV/AIDS (similar to the total children population in Germany or United Kingdom)

And even more staggering:

The following groups of people do not have the Gospel:
  • 865 million unreached Muslims or Islamic followers in 3330 cultural sub-groupings
  • 550 million unreached Hindus in 1660 cultural sub-groups
  • 150 million unreached Chinese in 830 groups
  • 275 million unreached Buddhists in 900 groups
  • 2550 unreached tribal groups (which are mainly animistic) with a total population of 140 million
  • Forming a smaller -- though important -- unreached group are the 17 million Jews scattered across 134 countries



What does this mean for our family?  We are still figuring it out.  BUT we haven't been living like we believe this:

32 “Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father has been pleased to give you the kingdom. 33 Sell your possessions and give to the poor. Provide purses for yourselves that will not wear out, a treasure in heaven that will never fail, where no thief comes near and no moth destroys. 34 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
And this:
21 Jesus looked at him and loved him. “One thing you lack,” he said. “Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” 22 At this the man’s face fell. He went away sad, because he had great wealth. 23 Jesus looked around and said to his disciples, “How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!
Or this:
Proverbs 21:13 Whoever shuts their ears to the cry of the poor will also cry out and not be answered.
Or this:
Proverbs 28:27 Those who give to the poor will lack nothing, but those who close their eyes to them receive many curses.

Proverbs 31:9 Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy.
And finally:

Luke 14:33
In the same way, those of you who do not give up everything you have cannot be my disciples.


It has been too easy for our family to live our very comfortable lives, with all of our "things" and pretend that the 22,000 children who die of starvation and preventable disease a day do not exist. But at what cost? I would like to beg every Christian I know to read the book Radical by David Platt, Paul and I are both reading it and God is using this book and some other circumstances to change everything about the way we think.  As I said before, we don't know exactly what this will look like.  We don't have a list of things we can check off to make us more responsible for the poor and the lost.  What we pray for is changed hearts and we beg God to reveal to us how we can obey him in radical ways, and that we will have the faith to obey radically.  Finally, we pray, that he will radically change our lives. (And when I say we, I mean it, Paul and I are on the same page, and that is a huge blessing.)

Monday, April 23, 2012

Sunday Snapshot:Legacy

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Paul's Grandpa Baynes passed away last Saturday, and his funeral was Wednesday.  I titled this blog post, "Legacy" and began the post with a picture of Paul loving on Grace outside the funeral home. Our twin boys Will and Ben are in the background, holding the doors open for people as they arrived.  I know that is a funny way to start a blog that is really about Grandpa, and we want to remember him.  But, the truth is Grandpa lived a life that is continuing on even after he is gone.  Each person who spoke at the funeral testified to the fact that Grandpa was a war hero, who fought on the beaches of Normandy on d-day, and throughout the rest of the war.  He was also a tough, but fair police officer back in the 50's and 60's in Detroit.  But Paul, and everyone else who spoke, mentioned that, more important than his heroics, was the fact that he greatly loved and served God, his wife, his children, his grandchildren, his great-grandchildren, and his church. He invested in people, not possessions. Because he lived a life that reflects Christ, he passed this on to his children and grandchildren.  I am the blessed recipient of this because my husband, his grandson, is now living a life of love for God and service to his family.  I know Paul will pass this on to our children, and I believe Grandpa's legacy will be passed down for generations to come.  As the author Max Lucado says, Grandpa has outlived his life.

Grandpa was buried with military honors at a veteran's cemetery.  The cemetery was awe-inspiring with row after row of white headstones and American flags.  The ceremony itself was touching and sad.  It is sad for the people who are left behind, especially Grandma, who had loved him for over sixty years.  That grief is tempered with hope though because Grandpa is now whole and worshiping at the feet of Jesus, and we will see him again.

Here are a few pictures of the military funeral.  

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Monday, April 16, 2012

Sunday Snapshot: My Twins are Eight!

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My twins turned eight years old on Friday. I remember vividly being told, just five weeks into my pregnancy, that it was likely I was expecting twins. Time stood still for seven months of nausea and worry about how we could possibly handle four kids, ages four and under. Then our precious twins were born six weeks early with some minor issues (that we weren't sure were so minor at first, but thankfully they were), and after a 10 day NICU stay we brought two tiny, adorable bundles home. Then life took off at the speed of light, and round the clock feedings and breathing treatments are a blur now. What I do remember is how good these babies were, and how it wasn't as hard as we thought it would be at all. How God sustained us, and how thankful we were.

Then came toddlerhood, Paul being gone for six months due to his new job, a move far away, and lots of sharpy marking all over people and walls. And our boys were still so good, but were WILD and twin toddlers were much more difficult than twin infants. Then I swear, I just blinked and our boys turned eight!

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Not much has changed since then. :) These boys are still so good. They're cuddly and sweet, and love their mama, sister and the rest of their family.

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And they are WILD!! They take life by the horns and live each moment they are awake to the fullest!!

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They are hilarious and Paul and I often have to hide our laughter, because they can be naughty too.

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We are so thankful for Will
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And Ben
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I don't know what we'd do without them.
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Friday, April 13, 2012

Favorite Photo Friday: Babydoll's Babydoll

If you know Grace, you know she wants to be called, "Babydoll." We aren't sure where this came from, but she tells everyone she meets that this is her name. A few nights ago, we had a couple of minutes of daylight left, at the end of a long day, and "Babydoll" and I went outside to take a few pictures of her with her favorite dolly. As we walked out the back door she fell in the dog bowl and got her cute skirt and leggins soaked, so we went back in and grabbed the first pair of pants we saw, and this stool that I just picked up and need to re-cover very soon. By this time we had even less sunlight; not the perfect recipe for a photo shoot, but we still had lots of fun. We took turns taking the pictures. First I took a picture of Grace with her doll, then she took some of her doll, then her dolly got a turn taking pictures of Grace by herself. This worked out great, because Grace loves to take pictures, and for once I was finished with the picture taking before she was.

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This is Grace's favorite doll right now. It is a hand-me-down American Girl doll from cousin Laura. Grace has a dress that matches the one Dolly is wearing in this picture.
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Grace was much more cooperative when her doll doll was, "taking the pictures." :) Dolly may be going with us on all our mommy photo shoots from now on. Now if I could JUST find a way to get the boys to cooperate!!
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Today is Will and Ben's 8th birthday. I can't believe my little twins are 8!! I am taking them out shopping tonight and they are going to let me get several pictures of them. I am very excited!! I'll post the pictures and a special birthday post on Sunday.

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Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Girls' Day

Here are just a few pictures from the day Grace and I spent together while the boys were playing at a friend's house.

We all spent the morning at The Sloan Museum, then all four boys went to play at our friends' house. Grace and I had a great time together at the park, then took I her into our little town and got just a few pictures of her, and paid her with a sucker. Finally we met up with the boys at church for a wonderful Good Friday service.

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Sunday, April 8, 2012

Sunday Snapshot: A Radical Easter

There are so many things I'd like to type right now, but I can't seem to make sense of my own thoughts. A few weeks ago I shared this post about the plight of orphans in Bulgaria. God has not stopped working on me since. Every book I read, every sermon I hear, every radio program I listen to points to living a life that isn't comfortable, but is completely, radically obedient to Jesus Christ. (Yes, I am reading Radical, by David Platt, as well.) The sermon today at church left me in tears, again, as I realize how we are called to live a crucified life. I am so excited to see what God has in store for our family, our church and me, as we strive to live this out. Hopefully I'll have more to share in the future. In the mean time here are some pictures of my children this very special Easter season.

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Wednesday, April 4, 2012

I Heart Faces: Happiness


When I heard that the theme for this month's I Heart Faces photo challenge was happiness I immediately thought of this picture. This brother and sister are big buddies, and you can tell how happy they make one another.

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